In Memory Of Ruben (Doobin) William Alvarado

20th July 1960 – 21st November 2007

This obituary was created in the memory of Ruben (Doobin) William Alvarado, born in san Jose california on the 20th July 1960 and passed away on the 21st November 2007, 47 years of age.

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Full Name: Ruben William Alvarado

Born: 20th July 1960

Passed Away: 21st November 2007

Age: 47 years of age

Location: San Jose California, California

Country: The United States

Father: Joe

Mother: Hope

Birth Place: san Jose california

Siblings: yolanda, sylvia,yvonne and joe jr.( deceased)

Occupation: truck Driver

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This obituary was created by Barbara on 4 May 2008 (update)

Ruben was the greatest. He was my boyfriend, my lover, my best friend.
Their was nothing i could of never gone through with Ruben by my side. He loved me and my kids no matter what.
I never knew my heart could of loved a man as much as i loved(and will always love) Ruben.
He made me smile and sometimes cry, but he was and will always be my HERO. He loved his parents so very much that he always told me that he wanted to die before his parents because he couldn't ever live his life without either one of them and his parents knew this, but no one knew that one day Ruben would be gone with all of us to grieve for him.
He passed away so fast within weeks after having some strokes. I stayed by his side and helped care for him through his illness. His parents as well as family and friends were also by his side to visit and for support.
Staying at night with Ruben at the hospital was special to me because after everyone was gone for the day after visiting and talking with Ruben we were together and finally had our quiet time together where i read the bible to him and always touched him and told him how much i loved him and how much his mom and dad loved him as well as family and friends and he loved to look at the pictures his friends Mark and Cheryl brought for him. They taped them on the hospital room wall high enough for him to see and he enjoyed looking at them. Mark and Cheryl also brought a big rig truck because that's what Ruben enjoyed driving. We wanted so much to keep his mind active and alert and try to help him remember things.
It was so hard to see Ruben helpless in bed and not be able to walk or talk. It hurt my heart so much. I prayed to GOD so much. I prayed that he would help Ruben get better so we could take him home and start his rehab and help him to walk and talk again, but it didn't happen. Ruben never came home.
Instead Ruben passed away and to heaven he went, though we all miss him so much it's nice to know that he's not suffering anymore and that he's now with his brother Joey and his grandparents and everyone else who's passed on.
The hard part is for the living. We all miss him so much. I miss his voice, our late night talks, our walks we'd take around the block. When he started to become ill he wanted to go for short walks around the block so i grabbed ahold of him real tight and we walked and talked about anything and everything. I would of never let anything happen to him. I just love him so much.
It was hard for me to not cry at times. I didn't want to let Ruben see me cry, but at times he did and he would wipe away my tears and tell me he loved me and that everything would be alright. How i prayed so hard that he would be alright. I tell you i was so scared, but i never let him know, i knew i had to be strong for both of us. I would of given up anything in this world for Ruben to of lived. He loved me like i had never, ever been loved before.
I remember when he'd call to say he'd stop by to see me at lunch time and i'd get ready for him and like a little kid i'd wait and when i heard that big rig of his come around the corner that's when i felt so happy. I'd run outside and right into his open arms and he would always give me the biggest hug and kiss and then that's when i felt like the luckiest woman in the world to be loved by him. The smile he would show was gorgeous just like him.
He wasn't perfect, but either was i. We were very close, more than anyone really knew. All i know is i lost my lover, my best friend and though our lives must go on i know that Ruben and the love we shared was so special that i will never, ever feel that way again ever in my lifetime.
I believe this. The love i felt with Ruben will never be felt again with anyone. It was too special. God! I love you so much Ruben. You have taken part of my heart with you when you passed away. You my sweet are my one and only. I loved you unconditionally and forever and it still stands true.
You will always have my heart. Thank you for sharing your love and your life and your heart with me. You will always be my HERO.

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In Memory Of Ruben (Doobin) William Alvarado

20th July 1960 – 21st November 2007